Did you know C-sections involve a catheter? Or that there is more pain still after birth? Here are some truth bombs on becoming a mum everyone should know about
Pop-culture often portrays motherhood as instinctive and glamorous, but reality can be very different. Pregnancy, giving birth and becoming a mother are all physically, emotionally and mentally challenging endeavours, which is completely normal. However, there is often reluctance from mothers to tell it like it is—perhaps due to fears of failure or being seen as not being a “good mum”—and sometimes there is also resistance against listening to mums’ honest takes on the experience.
From the pain of childbirth to unrealistic expectations on postpartum bodies, mothers from the Tatler community share what none of us talk enough about when it comes to pregnancy and motherhood.
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Feiping Chang, model and influencer
I think a happy mother is the beating heart of the family, as your day-to-day emotions can really influence your children in every way. So I hope all mothers know that it’s not wrong to put yourself first sometimes—even though we all experience that “mum guilt”, taking care of your wellbeing is taking care of your family!
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