How do you measure success?
Measuring success is as complex as it is subjective. In most workplaces, achieving success can depend on many factors—work ethic, integrity, performance ... just to name a few. However, no matter how much someone excels at any or all of these factors, should they come from a background with abundant economical, social and cultural capital, they success is sometimes underplayed or even put under the microscope. Divia Harilela, editor and founder of The D’Vine fashion and lifestyle consultancy, and Angelina Kwan, CEO of Stratford Finance, share their thoughts on whether nepo babies—children of the rich and famous, who have succeeded in careers similar to those of their parents—are unfairly scrutinised.
Now, let’s look at other ways different people might measure success—from being able to speak confidently in front of an audience to igniting a passion, or even prioritising your well-being. In this week’s newsletter, Treena Nairne from TEDxTinHauWomen tell us how she became a confident public speaker; K-pop idol Taeyang stresses that behind any victory is a lot of self-care; and then there is Thai British Formula One driver Alex Albon, who is proof that passion projects—even if they’re outside your core passion—are worth pursuing and putting hard work into. But, of course, a bit of luck from the stars is always welcome to facilitate the process.
Other newsletter highlights this week:
- Can video games make our world a better place? Here are some games that address social issues in accessible ways.
- Discover the best Cantonese private kitchens in Hong Kong—reservations absolutely required.
- Birthstone guide for October: Here’s why you should never give an opal to a Libra as a present.
Dear Tatler readers, this weekend, celebrate your successes. The positive impact you have on the world—whether that’s in your professional or private lives—is never too small and deserves to be honoured. Until next time, have a great Friday!
Salomé Grouard
Deputy Digital Editor
POWER & PURPOSE
TEDx coach’s tips on being a more confident public speaker
Mashiat Lamisa speaking at TEDxTinHauWomen 2022
Treena Nairne used to be the kid in school who never spoke in class. Today, she's a communications coach and head of curation at TEDxTinHauWomen.
Here, she shares some of the challenges people face with public speaking and how to overcome them.
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Kai Laus, Tata Harper’s global spa director, on what our skin says about our health and wellbeing, the importance of balance and advice for women leaders.
From social impact to AI, Grammy winner Dana Leong tells Tatler how his pursuit of exploration has led him to ground-breaking innovations.
STYLE
A chat with Richard Mille ambassador, French mountaineer Charles Dubouloz
Richard Mille welcomes Charles Dubouloz to its family as its first-ever mountaineer ambassador (Photo: courtesy of Richard Mille)
In the realm of mountaineering, a new star has emerged. Richard Mille proudly welcomes Charles Dubouloz to its family as its first-ever mountaineer ambassador.
Get to know the Annecy-native, who is making waves in his field, scaling new heights and conquering new routes across the globe.
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Formula One driver Alex Albon on designing and launching his footwear brand, how being mixed race sets him apart and his pursuit of perfection.
Here’s what you need to know about opals, the October birthstone, and why you should never give one to a Libra as a present.
Chopard high jewellery entrances guests in an immersive garden wonderland at teamLab SuperNature Macao.
LIFESTYLE
7 shows you don’t want to miss at the Hong Kong Arts Festival
Le Corsaire (Photo: courtesy of Brescia e Amisano and Teatro alla Scala)
The 52nd edition of the Hong Kong Arts Festival is returning to its full scale for the first time since the outbreak of the Covid-19 pandemic, and will run from February 22 to March 22, 2024.
Tickets went on sale on October 13, but if you haven’t bought any yet because you’re having a hard time choosing what to see, here are Tatler’s top picks from various categories.
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With the start of the Scorpio season taking place next week, Tatler’s astrologer Casey Chan explains what it means for each star sign.
K-pop stars Taeyang and Somi talk mental health and daily habits at Lululemon’s Find Your Wellbeing campaign series launch event in Seoul, South Korea.
BMW unveiled its new X7 to Tatler VIPs at a magnificent four-hands dinner this September.
DINING
The best Cantonese private kitchens in Hong Kong
Discover the best private kitchens around Hong Kong
In Hong Kong, it's an open secret that the city's Cantonese private kitchens are the best places to go for dishes that showcase culinary flair both of their respective chef-owners and of the regional cuisine, all in homey, unpretentious surroundings.
Get clued into the speakeasy restaurants dishing out some of the city's most coveted culinary creations.
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Yes, Seoul is one big open-air restaurant. Leave your shopping bags and divert your focus to the city’s best street food markets.
As Halloween is around the corner, discover these horrifyingly tasty treats around the city specially curated for this spooky season.
This year, 10 Asian bars were represented in the prestigious World’s 50 Best Bars. Can you guess which ones?
HOMES
An artistic Vancouver apartment with amazing sea views
A view of the open-plan living room in this Vancouver apartment (All photography: Ema Peter)
Featuring picture-perfect views of the sapphire waters of English Bay and the rugged North Shore Mountains, this Vancouver apartment complements its gorgeous natural setting with beauty of a more man-made persuasion.
Walk through the 1,200 sq ft apartment, which sits on the 25th level of a 30-storey residential tower in the city’s beach district.
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From the minimalist coffee shops of Japan to fun themed cafés in Vietnam, here are some of the world's most stylish and interesting coffee shops.
One of New York City’s most affluent neighbourhoods is home to this 4,000 sq ft psychedelic haven, called Apartment 48.
Check out these six amazing Maggie’s Centres that showcase the healing power of design.
AROUND ASIA
SINGAPORE | Nathania Ong on being the first Singaporean actress to play Éponine in Les Misérables on the West End.
PHILIPPINES | Tatler Homes editor Stephanie Zubiri tells us why her latest project is a haven for overwhelmed minds, bodies, and spirits.
MALAYSIA | 8 places to get your pizza fix in the Klang Valley.
