Guests from the Tatler Gen.T and Tatler Front and Female community watched the documentary, The Noble Guardian, at the Pavilion Hotel Kuala Lumpur (Photo: Fady Younis)
Cover Tatler Gen.T and Tatler Front and Female community hosted an exclusive screening of the documentary following Mahbouba Seraj’s activism, ‘The Noble Guardian’, at the Pavilion Hotel Kuala Lumpur (Photo: Fady Younis)

In celebration of International Women’s Day, we screened ‘The Noble Guardian’, an eye-opening film directed by award-winning journalist Anna Coren on the life of girls and women in Afghanistan—and the tenacity of one woman in trying to alleviate their plight

On March 14, Tatler Gen.T and Tatler Front and Female co-hosted a private screening of The Noble Guardian, a documentary film on the work of Mahbouba Seraj, an Afghan women’s activist and speaker at the inaugural Tatler Gen.T Summit last year. 

Nearly 80 guests showed up for the screening, which was held at Pavilion Hotel Kuala Lumpur and supported by skincare brand Cuura and fashion label Larney. A smaller-scale screening also took place in Singapore the week before, on March 7.

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The film showed the plight of girls and women in war-torn Afghanistan, particularly how their lives changed under the rule of the Taliban, the extremist group that overthrew the country’s government in August 2021. While most tried to flee the country during this time, 75-year-old Seraj stood her ground and stayed to continue running her non-profit organisation, the Afghan Women Skills Development Centre, which supports abused women and children. 

But as the film revealed, her courage and defiance to concede to patriarchal power were met with numerous roadblocks and challenges, including the denial of some local women of her efforts to help them.

After the screening, guests were also treated to a moving question-and-answer session with Seraj. These were the key takeaways from that conversation.

On the moment that triggered everything

Seraj shared that when she was living in Santa Fe, New Mexico, she saw the news of the Taliban executing an Afghan woman in a stadium on television. That moment ignited a fire in her that she would harness to advocate for change.

“Even though I never saw her face or knew her, it felt like she was calling out to me, telling me about the plight of women in Afghanistan,” she said. “This ignited a deep desire in me to speak up, ask questions, stand with these women and amplify their voices.”

She added, “The world must hear their stories and understand their struggles. I want to be the conduit for their voices to be heard.”

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Photo 1 of 4 The audience was captivated by the story of Afghan women’s activist, Mahbouba Seraj (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 2 of 4 Chong Jinn Xiung, Tatler Gen.T editor for Malaysia (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 3 of 4 Tania Jayatilaka, Front & Female editor (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 4 of 4 Attendees took home copies of Tatler as well as items from our partners including pleated skirts and caftans from Larney and sunscreen and sleeping mask from Cuura (Photo: Fady Younis)

A gender apartheid in plain sight

Describing the systematic oppression that her countrywomen face in Afghanistan, Seraj shared: “Women are completely erased. Their voices can’t be heard, their faces cannot be seen and even the sound of their shoes must be silenced. If the Taliban could, they would make them disappear. That is absolutely unacceptable.”

And despite Seraj’s best efforts, her organisation has not yet been able to make significant strides in securing the rights of women in Afghanistan.

“Losing the right to education can feel like a life being stripped away. This has been the reality for girls and young women in Afghanistan for the past three years. It has deeply impacted their mental health. The poor economy, inability to attend school or work, and lack of freedom to move freely have slowly eroded their liberties, making life unbearable. As a result, suicide rates and mental illness are on the rise. These are the harsh realities we face in the country,” she said. 

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Photo 1 of 3 After the screening of the documentary, guests were treated to a pre-recorded question-and-answer session with Mahbouba Seraj (Photo: Fady Younis)
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Photo 3 of 3 Melissa Tan, Tehmina Kaoosji, Penny Choo, Nirmala Bhoo Pathy (Photo: Fady Younis)

Finding hope in a sea of challenges

Seraj admitted that there had been moments when she wondered how she would manage everything. “Some days, even getting out of bed and confronting the world feels insurmountable.”

But still, she said she strives to make matters happen, “because I bear a profound responsibility for over 70 women and children under my care in the safe houses.”

“When I gaze upon their faces, I recognise their sole glimmer of hope rests with me and my organisation,” she added. “Amplifying their voices and extending assistance in every way possible, I draw strength from their beautiful countenances to continue my work.”

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Photo 1 of 4 Datuk Nicol Ann David, Gerrie Beh, Zura Zabidi, Sarah Shah Nor, Datin Paduka Marina Mahathir, Lynette Ow, Mariana De Reyes and Izzana Salleh (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 2 of 4 Yong Mei Tsin, Angeline Tan, Melissa Tan, Penny Choo, Giden Lim, Teh Yong Lin and Jean Heah (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 3 of 4 Shaheera Shahab, Datin Catherine Lai, Susan Lancaster, Datin Adib Yasmin Aman (Photo: Fady Younis)
Photo 4 of 4 Nadia Ismadi and Alina Amir (Photo: Fady Younis)

Where there’s hope, there’s life

Her defiance to concede to the patriarchy was perhaps most palpable when she said this: “As long as we, the women of Afghanistan, continue to stand and speak for the voiceless, we maintain hope. Though there may not be a resolution at the moment, our indomitable spirit remains alive. We don’t resort to violence. Instead, we inspire hope in future generations.”

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Part of the screening programme was also a fireside chat with one of the greatest squash players in Malaysia's history, Datuk Nicol Ann David, alongside Mariana De Reyes, the co-founder and CEO of the Nicol David Organisation. During the discussion, David emphasised why women should talk more about their struggles and vulnerabilities. As a pro-athlete, she shared that she had initially found it difficult to do so, but has continued to learn to open up thanks to the mothers of the children who come through her non-profit organisation’s doors. Her purpose for starting the Nicol David Organisation was to empower underprivileged children through sports and education.

“To be a change agent, you must start with yourself,” said David. “Be the first person to make that ripple effect. We often don’t realise how powerful we are, [so take] action and [make] that first step forward.”

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